Sonika & Asmod

Kathmandu · Nepal

We can't wait to welcome you to Nepal. Thank you for making this journey so far to celebrate with us. We hope this will be an adventure of a lifetime for you, and we'll try our best to make sure that's true. We've put together this guide to get you prepared for your trip.

First Things First

Applying for your visa

US passport holders have two easy options. Most travellers simply get a visa on arrival; if you'd rather not fly without a visa in hand, you can apply by mail through the Nepali Embassy in Washington, D.C. beforehand.

Option 1 · Easiest

Visa on Arrival

Granted right at Kathmandu airport. To skip the longer queue, fill the online form within 15 days before you fly, then bring the confirmation, a passport photo, and USD cash to pay.

  1. Complete the online form at the immigration portal and print the confirmation page.
  2. Land at Kathmandu, use a kiosk or the counter, and show your confirmation.
  3. Pay the fee in cash (USD preferred) and collect your visa sticker.
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Option 2 · In advance

Embassy Visa (by mail)

Apply through the Embassy of Nepal, Washington D.C. Complete the online ETA application (your application ID must begin with "M" to be eligible for an embassy visa), then mail your documents in.

  • Printed online application confirmation page
  • Passport valid 6+ months, with 2 blank visa pages
  • Fee by cashier's check or money order, payable to "The Embassy of Nepal, Washington D.C."
  • Self-addressed return envelope with tracking (unless picking up in person)

Processing: 4–5 business days. The issued ETA is valid up to 6 months from the date of issuance.

Embassy tourist-visa page →

Tourist visa fees

DurationCash / check / money orderDebit card (+2% +$0.25)Credit card (+3%)
15 days$30.00$30.85$30.90
30 days$50.00$51.25$51.50
90 days$125.00$127.75$128.75

Fees apply to everyone; children are not exempt. Mail-in applicants must pay by cashier's check or money order (no personal checks). Full details are on the Embassy's website.

Getting to Nepal

Flying into Kathmandu

All flights land at Tribhuvan International Airport (KTM). There are no non-stops from the US; everyone connects once, usually through the Middle East, East Asia, or India. Total travel time runs roughly 18–24 hours each way.

From the East Coast

NYC · DC · Boston

The Middle East hubs are the smoothest single-stop path from the East Coast.

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Roughly $1,100 to $1,700 round-trip, economy (approx.)

From the West Coast

LA · SF · Seattle

Routing west across the Pacific through Asia is usually faster from the West Coast.

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Roughly $1,200 to $1,900 round-trip, economy (approx.)

Book early, it pays off. December is peak holiday season and prices climb as the date nears, so lock in your flights sooner rather than later. And since it's a long haul, stay hydrated, get up and walk whenever you can, watch your favourite film or dig into a good book, and if you can manage to sleep, even better.

Once You're Here

After you land

A few things that'll make your first hours in Nepal smooth and stress-free.

At the airport

The airport is small and easy to navigate, though baggage claim can be slow, so be patient. A couple of customs rules worth knowing so you don't get held up:

  • No more than 1 litre of duty-free alcohol
  • Gold limits: up to 25 g for men, 50 g for women

Money & payments

You can exchange some cash right outside arrivals if you like. Roughly $1 ≈ 150 NPR. Hotels, restaurants and many shops take cards, but keep cash for taxis and small vendors. Locals also use digital wallets like Fonepay and eSewa.

Handy to keep some 500 and 100 rupee notes for cabs and small buys; hotels can break the bigger 1,000s.

Staying connected

Both carriers, Ncell and Nepal Telecom (NTC), have desks at the airport, and eSIMs are available. A tourist SIM is well worth it:

  • Ncell: ~NPR 595 (7 days) · 995 (14 days) · 1,995 (28 days). Data pack ~28GB/28 days ≈ NPR 1,200 ($9).
  • NTC: from ~NPR 500 (7-day, 7GB) up to ~NPR 1,200 (28-day, 12–28GB).

Language

In most restaurants, resorts, hotels and cafés, and with many drivers, English is widely understood, so language shouldn't be a problem. Now and then an accent might be a little tricky to follow, but you'll get by easily.

Time zone & jet lag

Nepal is UTC +5:45, yes, the famous 45-minute offset, about 10¾ hours ahead of US Eastern. Jet lag is real and can take a few days to shake.

Our trick: if you land in the morning, don't nap; push through and only sleep once it's evening in Nepal. It resets you far faster. (Fighting jet lag is half the adventure, honestly!)

December weather

Kathmandu is crisp and dry, with warm sun by day around 18–20°C (mid-60s°F), but mornings and evenings turn chilly, dropping to 3–5°C (upper 30s°F) at night. These are the clearest mountain-view days of the year.

Pack layers and a warm jacket; you'll want both a t-shirt and a coat in the same day.

Getting around

Just like Uber back home, Nepal has great ride apps: Pathao, Yango and InDrive all work much the same way. You'll see two-wheeler (bike/scooter) and four-wheeler (car) options.

We recommend sticking to four-wheelers (two-wheelers aren't as safe) unless you're feeling adventurous. For a group doing several stops, a private car with driver runs about $100/day.

Staying healthy. Drink bottled water only, including for brushing your teeth, go gentle on raw salads while your stomach adjusts, and avoid street food. Kathmandu can also get dusty, and dust allergies or a cold are common, so pack some over-the-counter medicine just in case. If anything gets worse, please contact us right away: we have good hospitals and family doctors who can help. And if you ever need care, CIWEC and Norvic are excellent hospitals in Kathmandu.

Where to Stay

Hotels in Kathmandu

A shortlist across the areas you'll want to be near. Thamel keeps you in the buzz; Marriott and Gokarna are calmer and more resort-like. Rates move with the season, so book ahead, as our dates are busy.

Thamel

Aloft Kathmandu Thamel

Bright, modern Marriott-family hotel right at the edge of Thamel, walkable to shops, cafés and Durbar Square, with a rooftop bar.

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Boutique

Maya Manor Hotel

A stylish boutique hotel in a quiet, central neighbourhood, with a garden, pool and easy reach of Thamel and the city centre.

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Durbar Marg · iconic

Hotel Yak & Yeti

A landmark five-star built around a historic Rana palace wing, with lush gardens and a central Durbar Marg location.

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Marriott

Kathmandu Marriott Hotel

Full-service five-star in Naxal, central and polished, with a spa, pool and excellent breakfast. Reliable comfort after long flights.

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Gokarna

Gokarna Forest Resort

A serene escape in a protected forest with a golf course and spa, on the city's green edge, about 20 min from Boudha. Quiet and unique.

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Heritage · special splurge

Dwarika's Hotel

An award-winning living museum of Newari craft, with hand-carved woodwork throughout and one of the country's finest restaurants on site. A notch above budget, but unforgettable.

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The Celebrations

Wedding Events

9Dec · Tue

Sonika's Family Reception

A celebratory evening hosted by Sonika's parents. Expect a big, warm crowd, plenty of food and drinks, and lots of dancing, a joyful way to kick things off.

10Dec · Wed

Cocktail Evening

A shorter, smaller gathering (2–3 hours), mostly for friends. We'll chat, dance, and get to know one another before the big day.

11Dec · Thu

Open Day

No event scheduled. Plan this day to explore Kathmandu, or simply relax.

12Dec · Fri

The Wedding Day

The big one, a long, joyful, wonderfully hectic full day of traditional rituals and music, a few happy tears from the bride's side, and wonderful food and drink throughout. Keep the whole day free.

13Dec · Sat

Asmod's Side Reception

Hosted by Asmod's family, mostly their friends and relatives. Expect great food, drinks, and music to close the celebrations. After this, the mountains are yours.

Come to what you can. You're warmly invited to every event, but please don't feel you must attend them all. The Wedding Day (Dec 12) is the one that matters most; everything else is yours to enjoy or skip as your trip allows. No pressure either way.
Dress code

What to wear

For the receptions, the cocktail, and the wedding, keep it festive and celebratory:

  • Men: a suit or shirt with leather shoes
  • Women: a gown or dress

Feel free to embrace bright colours; Nepali celebrations are anything but muted.

Our gift to you

Traditional Nepali attire

Asmod and I would love to gift each of you traditional Nepali clothing to wear on the wedding day: Daura Suruwal for the men, and a saree and blouse for the women.

If you're interested, please add your measurements to our shared sheet. It includes a reference video showing exactly how to measure, with separate tabs for men and women.

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Not sure how to measure? Just tell us, and we'll happily walk you through it.

Explore

Kathmandu Valley must-sees

Seven UNESCO World Heritage sites sit within the valley alone. These are the ones we'd send our closest friends to first; Boudhanath is Asmod's favourite.

Boudhanath Stupa

One of the largest Buddhist stupas on earth, ringed by monasteries and prayer wheels. Loveliest at dusk, when butter lamps glow and monks circle it.

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Swayambhunath

The "Monkey Temple" on a hilltop, with the painted Buddha eyes gazing over the whole city. Climb the steps for the best valley panorama.

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Pashupatinath

Nepal's holiest Hindu temple on the Bagmati River, with sadhus, ghats and living ritual. Profound and moving; visit respectfully.

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Kathmandu Durbar Square

The old royal plaza of temples, palaces and the home of the living goddess (Kumari). The historic heart of the city.

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Patan Durbar Square

Across the river in Lalitpur, arguably the finest Newari architecture and metal-craft in the valley, plus a superb museum.

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Bhaktapur

A perfectly preserved medieval city of brick and wood, potters' squares and the famous juju dhau curd. Worth a half-day at least.

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Thamel

The lively tourist quarter: trekking gear, pashminas, singing bowls, rooftop bars and live music. Great for evening wandering and gifts.

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Kopan Monastery

A hilltop Tibetan Buddhist monastery above Boudha with gardens and valley views, a calm morning away from the crowds.

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After Dark

Kathmandu nightlife

If you're up for a night out, Thamel is the heart of it. Nepal's clubs are lively, modern, and genuinely fun.

Club Nova

The largest nightclub in Nepal and the centre of Thamel's scene, a purpose-built venue with a huge sound system. Its weekly "Nova Friday" is the busiest night in the city.

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LOD, Lord of the Drinks

The other name on everyone's lips, with a concert-style stage, top mixologists and a long-running reputation among locals and travellers alike. It even made DJ Mag's global rankings.

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Supper Club

A stylish rooftop lounge and club with city views, cocktails and a smart crowd, good for a slightly more upscale night out.

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For live music over a DJ set, Purple Haze Rock Bar and House of Music are the go-to spots for bands and rock nights.

Eat Well

Famous foods & where to try them

The best way to know Nepal is through its food. Here's what to order, and the spots locals actually rate for each. Reserve the fine-dining tables ahead, especially around our dates.

Momo · steamed dumplings

Nepal's obsession: juicy pockets of spiced buffalo, chicken or veg with a fiery tomato-sesame achar. Try them steamed, fried (kothey), or swimming in soup (jhol).

Where: Narayan Dai Ko Momo (a valley institution since 1962) · Thamel Momo Hut · Bagmati Sweets for the best paneer momo

Dal Bhat · the national plate

Rice, lentil soup, seasonal curries, greens and pickles, endlessly refillable and endlessly comforting. "Dal bhat power, 24 hour," as the trekkers say.

Where: Bhojan Griha (a restored mansion with folk music) · Krishnarpan at Dwarika's for the special-occasion version

Newari Khaja Set · the tasting platter

The valley's own feast: beaten rice with choila (grilled spiced meat), bara (lentil patties), chatamari (rice crêpe) and more. A whole culture on one plate.

Where: Newa Lahana (cultural setting, servers in Newari dress) · Harati Newari Restaurant (famous chatamari) · Honacha on Patan Durbar Square (a hidden local legend)

Thakali Set · the mountain thali

A refined thali from the Thak Khola region, with distinct dal, tender meat, black-eyed beans and tangy pickles. Many say it's the best-balanced meal in Nepal.

Where: Daura Thakali (widely rated the best in town) · Jimbu Thakali by Capital Grill · Lete Thakali Kitchen

Sekuwa · charcoal-grilled meat

Marinated meat grilled over charcoal until smoky and tender, best with a cold Gorkha beer.

Where: Bota:Momo & Sekuwa Corner · Fast Food Newari Khaja Ghar in Dillibazar

Sel Roti · sweet rice ring

A crisp, ring-shaped rice-flour "doughnut," lightly sweet, a festival staple you'll spot at every celebration, including ours. Best fresh from a street griddle.

Juju Dhau · the "king of yogurt"

Bhaktapur's legendary creamy sweet buffalo-milk curd, set in clay pots. Buy it from any dairy shop around Bhaktapur Durbar Square; worth the trip on its own.

A tip from Asmod: Thamel, Boudhanath and the Durbar Squares are the best areas to graze on regional and ethnic cuisine.

Beyond the Valley

If you have a few extra days

Nepal rewards a longer stay. Asmod's tried-and-tested route is Kathmandu → Pokhara → Chitwan → back to Kathmandu. Rest in the valley for a day or two first, then head out. These are the easiest, most beautiful add-ons after the 13th.

≈ 25 min flight from KTM

Pokhara

Why go: Nepal's lakeside resort town, with the Annapurna range mirrored in Phewa Lake. Sunrise over the mountains from Sarangkot, boating, the World Peace Pagoda, and some of the world's best adventure sports.

Don't miss: paragliding, an ultralight flight, or the zipline and bungee for a rush. Ghandruk makes a lovely overnight for close-up mountain views.

Stay: Temple Tree Resort · The Pavilions Himalayas · Hotel Barahi · Fish Tail Lodge (≈ $120–200/night).

≈ 1.5 to 2 hr drive from KTM

Nagarkot

Why go: A ridgetop village on the valley rim famous for its sunrise Himalaya panorama. On clear December mornings you can see from Annapurna to Everest. The easiest mountain-view escape, ideal for a single overnight.

Pack layers; it's noticeably colder up top.

Stay: Club Himalaya Resort · Hotel Country Villa · The Fort Resort (≈ $90–170/night; book a mountain-facing room).

≈ 25 min flight from Pokhara or KTM

Chitwan National Park

Why go: Subtropical lowland jungle for a genuine wildlife safari, with one-horned rhinos, crocodiles, deer, and if you're lucky a Bengal tiger. Gentle winter jungle walks and river boat rides, plus free park walking tours.

Stay: Barahi Jungle Lodge · Green Park Chitwan · Kasara Resort (jungle lodges, often 2-night packages).

Without the trek

See Everest from the air

Why go: Short on time but want the giants? A mountain flight ("breakfast at Everest") from Kathmandu is a 3 to 4 hour round trip with close-up Everest views, and Buddha Air runs a dedicated one. Cheaper trick: grab a north-side window seat on the Kathmandu to Pokhara hop for free Himalaya views.

Fly, don't drive. Skip the long Kathmandu to Pokhara road (under repair, and it can eat a whole day) and take the 25-minute flight. Buddha Air has the country's best safety record and is Asmod's top pick, with Yeti Airlines and Simrik as alternatives. Book directly through the airline where you can.

For the Trekkers

Treks to a base camp

If you've come this far, walk into the mountains. These routes reach real high-mountain viewpoints, from a few days up to about a week. Nights are spent in cosy family-run teahouse lodges, with a warm bed, dal bhat and a stove, so no camping needed. December is cold but famously clear.

A note on the recent floods. Because of the floods, many trekking routes have been damaged. If you're planning any trek, please let us know so we can connect you with trusted trekking guides and help you find a route that's open and safe.
Easiest · from Pokhara

Ghorepani & Poon Hill

The classic first trek. Rhododendron forest, stone-stair Gurung villages, and the celebrated Poon Hill sunrise (3,210 m) over Annapurna and Dhaulagiri.

4–5 days · moderate · teahouses in Ghorepani, Ghandruk, Tikhedhunga.

Asmod's pick · from Pokhara

Mardi Himal Base Camp

The one Asmod has done and recommends, a quieter high-ridge trail climbing to 4,500 m right beneath the fishtail peak of Machhapuchhre. Big views, fewer crowds.

4–5 days · moderate to challenging · teahouses at Forest Camp, High Camp.

Bigger adventure · from Pokhara

Annapurna Base Camp (ABC)

The classic Annapurna trek, walking right into a high glacial amphitheatre ringed by giants and standing beneath Annapurna I at 4,130 m. Unforgettable, and doable for fit first-timers with time to spare.

7–10 days · moderate to challenging · teahouses all along the route.

Before you lace up: a licensed guide is now required for most treks and worth every rupee. A few things Asmod has learned:
  • Use an agency with a real physical office. Foreigners are commonly quoted $500–600 for a package locals pay $150–200 for, a known norm rather than a scam, but good to know going in.
  • Don't prepay large sums; cash-on-arrival is normal and accepted with reputable guides.
  • Warm jackets, gloves and hiking poles can be rented in Pokhara if you'd rather not pack them.
  • December nights run cold (15–20°F up high, possibly snowy), so pack layers and give yourself time to acclimatize after landing.
We're happy to connect you with a trusted local operator, just ask.